Still trying to get things back together here at headquarters… So enjoy a throwback post from this time last year… How?
Still trying to get things back together here at headquarters… So enjoy a throwback post from this time last year… How?
I had the honor of working with Topher, his brother Walter and their sister Nora last week. Topher and Walter are friendly, active dogs and Nora is a beautiful kitty. Their mom invited me over specifically to work with Topher but Reiki energy does not discriminate; it goes and flows wherever it is welcome and needed! Upon my arrival, Walter and Topher greeted me with puppy-like fervor while Nora assessed me from afar. I love cats for their moments like that—no nonsense, no pretense. After we talked about some goals for our session, Topher’s mom left us to get down to business!
I anointed myself with Believe essential oil and sat on the floor in their living room. As I started to tune in to the energy and my guides, Topher sat to my left, leaning his right side against my knee and crossed legs. The color blue swirled around his energy. As I worked on his crown chakra, I felt a sense of high alert and was compelled to send him the word “ease.” When I worked on his throat chakra, I shared with him the message from my guides that he can tell his mom what he needs and she will always hear him. I also connected with a heaviness on his right side, nothing to be concerned about per se, but just an awareness.
Topher bounced away after some time together and Walter walked over, almost like he had been waiting his turn. Walter sat in my lap and we connected. Both doggy brothers allowed lots of hands-on work throughout the session, probably the most I’ve ever had with new clients! I “got” the “message” that Walter was a lawyer or some sort of negotiator in a past life or, if he were human in this life, that would be his career path. I connected most with and worked on his sacral and root chakras.
Topher came back over and sat, somewhat at attention, in front of me this time. I just do my thing and those who need the energy line up! This time together, I was compelled to work more on his throat and solar plexus chakras. I worked through his legs, hips and corresponding root chakra as well, sending to him that he is secure. He “shared” with me that he senses a transition or a new family member. In our post-session conversation, Topher’s mom confirmed that someone did recently move into their home. Messages and connections like that are just confirmation for me that the energy is “working,” not that I ever doubted it anyway.
Nora stayed in the next room for the entirety of our session, regally grooming herself and never taking her eyes off of me. I got a “den mother” vibe from her, as if she feels responsible to keep order in the house. My closing messages, just from the space in general, were about a middle child energy and the number 7, all of which I shared with Topher, Walter and Nora’s mom in our chat after I closed out the session. It was truly a beautiful hour with this happy, energetic family. Topher, if you’re listening, just remember: ease!
This isn’t about rabbits or Reiki.
A year ago, we said goodbye—well, sort of. I said I would see you later that week. I said we would talk more then (and I silently promised to turn my damn phone off at our next visit—no pointless distractions). I walked out of your front door, it was a Saturday, fully intending to be back maybe on Wednesday, silently promising myself that I would not let the week go by without making time for a visit. Just like this year, last August was zooming by. About an hour after I left, you died.
I wonder a lot. You know my brain is always going, barreling perhaps. We only knew each other for a touch over two years. Why was I the second-to-last person to see you in your earthly form? Do you know how much you changed my life in a span of two years? Can you fathom just how much you taught me?
If you didn’t leave this dimension when you did, would we still be friends? Or would I have said something, done something, been something that you didn’t want to be around? Would we be on the phone right now on this super-cloudy day? Or would I be sitting here, telling myself that I better make time for you before my long vacation ends?
Ours is one of those friendships that didn’t seem likely but just makes so much darn sense. 16 years apart in age, vastly different families and upbringings. You, tiny in stature, secure in purpose. Me, average in size, barreling toward my purpose—you helped me find it. It’s all your fault, that I’m finally living my dreams.
We bought the house I told you about, but you know that already. We live so close to you now. We actually have space to have people come inside the house! I’m getting better every day. You helped guide me on this path. I hear your voice in my head. I see you in yoga classes still—remember the lady whose pants were inside-out?! I love how the same things annoyed us.
You were supposed to teach me to sew. But let’s be serious, I wouldn’t do my own sewing anyway. Did I teach you anything? Is there anything you didn’t get to tell me? Well, besides the messages that you are flooding me with now… shout out to my Spirit Junkies and other spiritual running buddies who have helped me further develop my gifts over the past year. I “hear” so clearly now.
Your babies are doing great. MM clipped their nails on Saturday. Your garden is gorgeous. Your world misses you. You are screaming in my left ear right now—I hear you, love!! I will keep living the dream for us both.
Gabby tells us to step in fully. And I’ve been doing that, every day. I’m stepping in and up, creating opportunities for growth in the day-job realm, going big in Rescue, arms locked with the most dedicated team, and establishing weekly classes for the summer to share our incredible wellness products. I’ve stepped in fully, basking in the light from root to crown.
Today, I want to share a few more sparkly gems from my massive collection of notes from our Spirit Junkie Masterclass:
Especially when we are flicking through our social media feeds, it is easy to start comparing, which breeds judgement, envy, annoyance, a host of negative emotions. When you catch yourself comparing her experience, her presentation of her relationship, her possessions, etc. to yours, lean into appreciation instead. Stop. Breathe. Be happy and proud for your friend (and if she’s not your friend, why are you looking at her stuff?). Find gratitude and appreciation for what you have and what you are experiencing. Make and execute a plan for change and growth for yourself. Appreciate your opportunities rather than compare and judge.
We are making a difference. It’s easy to miss that, especially if you watch “the news.” But I know darn well that the light I stand in and spread to everyone I come into contact with is facilitating positivity. It’s a domino effect, in a good way. Is there a term for that, because domino effect is making me think things are falling down? I haven’t had my coffee yet. But you get me. Make one person smile and they make another person smile. It’s network marketing for the spirit.
When you are getting push-back, when doors aren’t opening up for you, when stuff seems impossible… all that is holding you back or telling you no or standing in your way starts from within. When we are faced with rejection and we let that stop us, that stems from inner resistance. When nothing seems to be going our way externally, that is rooted in something internal. But please don’t blame yourself or beat yourself up. Find that inner resistance and dissolve it with love. Literally sit down, close those pretty eyes, and envision that inner resistance. Give it a face or a symbol. Then envision surrounding it with love, pouring love all over it and through it. Dissolve it with that love.
Oh! Now I’m inspired to lead a guided meditation and/or Aroma Freedom Technique session about dissolving our inner resistance with love… let’s make this happen.
People sure seem to find a lot to complain about. Now, I can get all cliché-crazy here (You can’t have a positive life with a negative mind!) but I’ll try to keep it my voice, as much as possible, today. Through Rescue, I don’t hear many complaints from the volunteer team, but when I do (or when I’ve made them myself in the past!), those complaints generally center around the perception that someone wasn’t contributing as much as the others were contributing. But I’ve been able to shift my own focus and the focus of the team as necessary, reminding myself and reminding them that we all play different roles. Some roles are more public, more obvious time working with foster rabbits or educating the community. Some other roles, the behind-the-scenes roles and even the sending of positive, supportive vibes and spreading our Rescue message, may not be as obvious but are just as important as the physical tasks. We treasure help in all its forms, from all givers. We are all taking action, whether you can see it or count it or not.
Also through Rescue, I’ll have the occasional “dumper” (someone who is trying to “dump” his/her rabbit on us) complain that we aren’t helping them. No, I can’t just take your rabbit. We do offer help, to anyone who asks—just not necessarily the kind help they anticipated or wanted. I’ve found that posture is huge with handling and even avoiding these complaints entirely. I’ve taken what I’ve learned about posture from my entrepreneurial reading and mentors and applied it to Rescue. I never tell anyone we can’t help them. I clearly and firmly show them how we can help. Then, if they still complain, that’s on them. I can’t control that crap.
So, let’s shift this idea into our lives, our experiences in general. Are you complaining? About what? Why? Or, perhaps the better question: Why aren’t you doing anything about it?
You can wish, want and whine forever. But change comes through action.
Are you surrounded by complainers? At work? Walk away. On social media? Unfollow. At home? Well, spray some White Angelica and do something uplifting for yourself. That positivity will spread, but even if it doesn’t, you’ll be in a good space. In Miracles Now, Gabby Bernstein writes, “Say to yourself, ‘I choose to remove any negative energy I’ve been holding onto. I choose to retrieve all the positive energy around me and within me. My intention is to share my positive energy with the world.’” So start there. Take action through your intention. Speak it into existence. Keep it as positive as possible. There is nothing, seriously NOTHING, about you and your circumstances that cannot be met and overcome with action. Much Love.
Every personal development book, lecture, course or coaching session deals with relationships in some form: the relationship with have with ourselves, with our environment and with other people. Even the supreme introverts have interaction with others in some capacity. JD Salinger had to walk to the Post Office to collect his mail in Cornish, N.H. Now I’m wondering why he even cared what was in the mail, if he disconnected so thoroughly from relationships with his environment and with others… Digression!
Yesterday, I co-hosted my first Make & Take party. 18 women gathered in our Great Room and spent a few hours creating. We made roller ball essential oil blends that smell delicious and either offer relief from temporary head tension or help support happy, uplifting feelings (some chose to make both!) and lava stone and gem stone essential oil diffuser bracelets. My friend and colleague Jill, a talented art professor at a local college, lead the jewelry making. We also talked oils, supporting the health of our family members, and seeking out safe and natural cleaning methods—a truly fun and grown-up afternoon.
I realized, with 2 exceptions, that I was able to introduce each woman as “Eddie & Bailey’s mom” or “Callie’s aunt” and so on. My 2 exceptions are straight from the YL essential oil family. Talk about a gathering of like-minded people, a room filled with women who love their fur babies and who are making positive choices for their health and the health of their family members.
“They” say that you become the sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with. “They” say, “Show me your friends and I’ll show you who you are.” “They” say there’s guilt by association, that you are judged by the company you keep. Caroline Manzo, in an early season of “The Real Housewives of New Jersey” said, “If you hang around with garbage, you start to stink.” Now I’ll remix that and say, “If you hang around with oilers and bunny moms, you’ll stink of positivity.” Ok… it’s a work in progress. Don’t embroider it on a pillow yet.
I’m inspired and invigorated by the relationships I’ve built through Rescue and now through Young Living Essential Oils. I’m even more pumped that the worlds have merged for me. I knew our bunny boys changed my life; they opened my journey to Rescue and to Animal Reiki. My personal development and wellness journey brought me to Young Living and to incorporating oils into Reiki. The paths merged and now I spend my time sharing and supporting the wellness journeys of those around me, my tribe, people by whom and alongside whom I’d gladly be judged. Find your Tribe—just do what you love, open your heart and they will appear. Much Love.
The only question I remember asking about rabbits before we got them was about smell. I used to ask everyone whom I encountered who had a companion rabbit, I think even before Bunny-daddy and I met, if rabbits smelled. Apparently my pet-cluelessness and curiosity stopped at odor. Much like your human children, as long as someone cleans the litter box often, my children don’t smell.
As the recipient of most Rescue communication, there are a number of questions people ask that make me sad, like:
Here are the questions people should ask:
Here’s to responsible pet ownership! Much Love.